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Ask Erin: I'm Confused About My Sexuality

I know that if I stay with my boyfriend, I'll be happy, and I could see myself staying with him forever, but I keep questioning my sexuality and thinking about this girl.  Read...
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Ask Erin: Can Exes Be Friends?

I really, really miss him, and I just want my friend back. Read...
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Ask Erin: My Wife Lied To Me About Being On Birth Control

Our third and fourth children have been "surprises" from failed birth control. I feel manipulated, depressed, and exhausted. This is the first time I've ever really admitted this, even though I think I've always known. Read...
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Ask Erin: I'm Newly Sober—Will I Ever Feel Normal Again?

I know it doesn’t happen overnight, but I feel so uncomfortable all the time. There is no relief.  Read...
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Ask Erin: I Can't Get Over My Feelings For My Boss

I know that if he doesn't reach out to me (which he hasn't), I should accept that as closure, but I seem to have trouble doing that.  Read...
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Ask Erin: My Girlfriend Doesn't Trust Me Because Of My Past

Is there something I can do to change how she feels about me? Read...
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Ask Erin: I Have Relationship Doubts Because My Boyfriend Comments On My Body

She’s made all the mistakes, so you don’t have to… Ask Erin is a weekly advice column, in which Erin answers your burning questions about anything at all.


Q.

Hi Erin,

I have been with my boyfriend for over two years. At the start of our relationship, I was dealing with anorexia and bulimia. Since then, I have recovered and currently weigh 15-20kg more than what I weighed at the start of the relationship. 

I thought he didn’t mind, but a couple of months ago, I joked around saying, “oh, you love my tummy now.”

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Ask Erin: I'm Ashamed I'm An Addict

I need to help myself. I don’t know if you will read this, but inside I’m screaming for someone to hear me. I’m really ashamed to say that I am an addict—I don’t think I have ever said that before.  Read...