toxic relationships

I began to wonder if I was defective, if maybe I was only able to be attracted to horrible men.

I’m Scared I’m Only Attracted To Assholes

The worst thought of all — if I meet someone who actually is really nice, how will I stop my anxiety from telling me they will end up being assholes? Read...
Elizabeth Best of SHESAID    |   11.20.18   |   SHARE
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(Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: My Husband Has A Sex Addiction 

I’m pretty sure my husband has a sex addiction because I keep catching him cheating on me. He’s cheating with multiple women, and he’s paying them Read...
Erin Khar   |   08.29.18   |   SHARE
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(Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Do I Tell My Best Friend She's Making A Mistake Getting Married?

What breaks my heart is that my friend had this idea recently that she wants to get married to this guy. I think she's making a mistake getting Read...
Erin Khar   |   08.22.18   |   SHARE
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The Audacity Of Female Violence ​

Victims of domestic violence have the right to defend themselves. Survivors shouldn't be victimized twice — that's the audacity of female violence! Read...
Misha V.    |   04.26.18   |   SHARE
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Am I the problem in our relationship? (Artwork: Tess Emily Rodriguez)

Ask Erin: Am I The Problem In Our Relationship?

He kept that a secret for me for so long, how do I know he won't do it again!?? Please help! Am I the problem in our relationship? Read...
Erin Khar   |   02.7.18   |   SHARE
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Stop saying toxic things. Your words have more power than you realize.

18 Toxic Things To Stop Saying To Your Partner In 2018

It’s never too late to resolve to have a better relationship. Remove these toxic things from your vocabulary in 2018. Read...
Team SHESAID of SHESAID    |   02.5.18   |   SHARE
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One person can’t hold up the weight of another at all times. It’s especially difficult in situations of role reversal, like with parents and kids.

What's Not Said: When Your Parents Take A Toll On Your Health

It can really take a toll on you when you have to parent a parent. Read...
Lisa Marie Basile    |   08.23.17   |   SHARE
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Have you stopped having sex, or are you worried that you’ve fallen out of love with each other?

Your Terrible Relationship Could Actually Kill You

Is it better to be alone than to be in a miserable relationship? Read...
Elizabeth Laura Nelson of SHESAID    |   08.18.17   |   SHARE
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