Do I tell my coworker that I slept with her boyfriend?

Ask Erin: Do I Tell My Coworker That I Slept With Her Boyfriend?

It was a one night stand, I don’t have any feelings for him, and she’s not a really close friend. Do I tell my coworker that I slept with her Read...
Erin Khar   |   11.22.17   |   SHARE
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Is it cheating if you have sex abroad?

Sex Abroad: Is It Cheating?

Is it cheating if you have sex abroad? Or is a cruise ship like Vegas, a place where all of your sins magically disappear when you leave? Read...
Annette Richmond    |   11.7.17   |   SHARE
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Ask Erin: Is He Single Or Not?

There’s someone I like, but I'm not sure if he's single or not. I met this guy online, we've been texting, and I'm starting to like him enough to Read...
Erin Khar   |   10.20.17   |   SHARE
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Joss Whedon's Infidelity Is Absolutely A Feminist Issue

Yes, cheating is a feminist issue, regardless of the gender identities of those involved. Because at its heart, it’s about consent. Read...
Dena Landon    |   09.5.17   |   SHARE
I’m not looking to be a sexy mistress, an evil home-wrecker, or in-the-meantime entertainment.

Two Things To Remember If Your Date Turns Out To Be Married

I don’t even like sharing a bowl of popcorn; why would I want to share a person? Read...
Vanessa Bates Ramirez of Role Reboot    |   08.14.17   |   SHARE
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Sometimes when we have to deliver shitty news like this, the recipient may misdirect their angry or hurt feelings on the wrong person, because that’s easier to do than confronting the person who betrayed them.

 Ask Erin: Should I Tell My Ex’s New Girlfriend He Was Trying To Get With Me?

She’s made all the mistakes, so you don’t have to… Ask Erin is a weekly advice column, in which Erin answers your burning questions about anything at Read...
Erin Khar    |   08.11.17   |   SHARE
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The truth is, knowing “why” won’t keep it from happening again and it won’t lessen your pain.

Knowing Why He Cheated Doesn’t Keep Him From Cheating Again

Cheating: Does knowing why a cheater cheats change anything? Read...
Cathy Meyer of DivorcedMoms    |   07.24.17   |   SHARE
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Many people — hundreds…thousands — find themselves crossing a line that they’ve never imagined crossing.

Why Happy People Cheat

Do happy people cheat? Read...
Winifred M. Reilly of The Good Men Project    |   06.26.17   |   SHARE
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