Sex

I still went to the painful place of being fat-shamed and decided that was why he had refused to kiss me.

Is It Because I'm Fat? How Internalized Shame Impacts Intimacy

I still went to the painful place of being fat-shamed and decided that was why he had refused to kiss me. The pain never fully went away. Read...
Christine Schoenwald    |   08.31.18   |   SHARE
Bodies
Sex position articles, please stop imposing your useless advice on me.

Dear Sex Position Articles, GTFO Of My Newsfeed​

So, sex position articles, please stop imposing your useless advice on me. I already know about more positions than I’ll ever have the chance to try! Read...
Suzannah Weiss    |   08.1.18   |   SHARE
Culture
Image Credit: The Sinner

Take The Cake: Mean Fat Babe Domme Beats Up Bill Pullman In “The Sinner” (AND I LOVE IT)

Sharon is so intensely interesting to me in The Sinner. We get to see a fat woman who is over thirty exercise extraordinary sexual power. Read...
Virgie Tovar    |   07.26.18   |   SHARE
Anticipation is part of the reason why sex is so hot at the beginning of relationships, so building it back in helps to get your sex life back on track.

How To Get Your Sex Life Back On Track

Anticipation is part of the reason why sex is so hot at the beginning of relationships, so building it back in helps to get your sex life back on Read...
Myisha Battle    |   07.17.18   |   SHARE
Sex + Love
image credit: Virgie Tovar via Instagram

Take The Cake: 7 Ways Thin People Romantically Exploit Fat People

Fat people often get so little attention that feels positive. When someone offers exploitative attention or exploits fat people it can feel really Read...
Virgie Tovar    |   06.21.18   |   SHARE
Sex + Love
I understood in no uncertain terms because of purity culture that having sex outside of marriage was the worst thing I could do as a young woman.

Purity Culture Isn't Just About Sex

I understood in no uncertain terms because of purity culture that having sex outside of marriage was the worst thing I could do as a young woman. Read...
Carrie Saum    |   06.15.18   |   SHARE
Sex + Love
Yes, men, even woke men, still say the most unbelievable things to us in bed.

Things Men Need To Stop Saying To Women In Bed

Yes, men, even woke men, still say the most unbelievable things to us in bed and most of the time, we don’t say anything back. Read...
Kerry Neville    |   06.4.18   |   SHARE
Sex + Love
Being a sex addict with Asperger’s might sound pretty out there. But it’s not that unusual, especially for women.

I'm At The End Of The Line With My Sex Addiction

Being a sex addict with Asperger’s might sound out there. But it’s not that unusual, especially for women. I'm at the end of the line with my sex Read...
Gwendolyn Kansen    |   05.29.18   |   SHARE
Sex + Love