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The sapiophile can still find love; it just probably won’t be on Tinder.

Are You A Sapiophile? Here’s How To Know…

The sapiophile can still find love; it just probably won’t be on Tinder. Read...
Kelly James of SHESAID    |   01.15.19   |   SHARE
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Attracted to the wrong people? Believe it or not, this is actually a good thing.

Why You’re Attracted To People Who Make You Feel Terrible About Yourself

Attracted to the wrong people? Believe it or not, this is actually a good thing. Read...
Elizabeth Laura Nelson of SHESAID    |   03.26.18   |   SHARE
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I Dyed My Hair Blue, And My Partner Didn’t Even Notice

At first I got angry. I’m supposed to be the love of his life, the Rachel to his Ross. Read...
Megan Zander    |   06.29.17   |   SHARE
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9 Surprising Facts About Your Sex Drive (And Your Partner's!)

Regardless if you’re partnered up or flying solo (and ain’t mad about it), there Read...
Lindsay Tigar    |   04.10.17   |   SHARE
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Just because you're both adults doesn't mean it won't be complicated.

Ask Erin: I Am Attracted To My Teacher, And I Think He's Attracted To Me

She’s made all the mistakes, so you don’t have to… Ask Erin is a weekly advice column, in which Erin answers your burning questions about anything at Read...
Erin Khar    |   03.3.17   |   SHARE
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What's The Difference Between Aesthetic And Sexual Attraction?

Sexual attraction is not the only type of physical attraction, AND aesthetic attraction is not the same as sexual attraction! Read...
Melissa Lovitz    |   09.2.16   |   SHARE
"I feel an intellectual connection with him and he appreciates me for me. He doesn’t seem like a game player like most of the guys my age."

Ask Erin: Is It A Bad Idea To Get Romantically Involved With My Friend’s Dad?

Dear Erin, I’m 23 years old. I’ve been in and out of bad relationships for about three years. Lately, I sort of cleaned house and got rid of the men Read...
Erin Khar    |   08.19.16   |   SHARE
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Still here. Still queer. Image: Liz Lazzara.

Dating A Man Doesn't Negate My Queerness

If you see me with my partner, you’ll more than likely think that I’m a straight girl in a heterosexual relationship — and there’s nothing I hate Read...
Liz Lazzara    |   06.24.16   |   SHARE
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